Ron Shiver

Many of you may have noticed that I have not been around much over the past several days. I apologize if you have tried to get in touch with me, as I have not responded to e-mails, Tweets, etc since Saturday night.
My father unexpectedly passed away Sunday morning. After going to sleep Sunday around midnight, he had two consecutive heart attacks in his sleep. He was only 52.
At approximately 6:45 am on Sunday a Sheriffs Deputy phoned me and told me I needed to get to my parent's house as soon as possible, but would not give me any details. Upon arriving the deputy let me know me father had passed away and then led me into the house where I found my mother in tears. I've never seen my mother or sister cry so hard in my life. The strangest thing is that until I phoned Liz I had been unable to cry. As soon as I actually had to say aloud that he had passed away I began to cry uncontrollably. Almost as if saying those words finally made it true.
Due to the fact that he was young and had no previous health problems the medical examiner was required to do an autopsy. That and the holiday caused us to be unable to make funeral arrangements until Wednesday and for the services to be pushed back until this coming Sunday.
This week has been one of the most horrible experiences of my life, thus far. If not for Liz, and my sister's boyfriend, Patrick, I do not know how we would have made it this far. While there are still tough times ahead I wanted to take a moment to get online and let everyone know why I have been absent, and will be for a while longer.
I will miss my father very much. I already do. He was one of the nicest guys you'd ever want to have met. He had a big heart and a kind soul. He would do anything for you, and if he liked you you were sure to be teased and picked on. The world lost a wonderful man, and an amazing father and husband on December 23, 2007.
